There’s a big difference between what women say they want and what they actually respond to. You see, most women will say that they want a nice, dependable guy who will treat them right. That’s all well and good but then why are so many women attracted to “bad boys”? Why do you see so many beautiful women dating complete and total jerks who have the bad boy image?
It’s simply because what women say they want and what they actually want are two different things. What they say they want has a lot to do with how they have been conditioned by society to think while the type of guys they are actually attracted to is dictated by nature and their wiring. Generally, nature wins out over society.
Does this mean you have to become a bad boy to be attractive to women? Yes and no. Confusing, I know, but there it is.
What you need to understand is that women are actually attracted to strong, confident men and definitely not to “nice guys” who do everything but lick the floor they walk on.
Take a look at those romance novels that women love so much. Pick up any of the popular ones and try and find one where the guy is “nice.” Good luck, you’re going to be looking forever because most of the men in these romance novels are tough, strong and powerful and in most cases they start out as being downright jerks even if they come around by the end.
And guess what? Women adore those books for a reason. Could it be because they are hoping to meet a similar man and these novels give them a chance to dream? If you answered Yes, then there is still hope for you.
Unfortunately, society seems to have emasculated men over the past few decades and there was a point where men were expected to be even more sensitive than women. The problem is that while women liked these men, they were only really interested in them as friends.
The good news is that it’s actually ok to be a man, especially since that is what women are looking for.